Friday, November 17, 2006

More prayers

Also, my Grandma (my mom's mom) had a stroke yesterday. She is very lethargic and fairly unresponsive. The doctors have decided there isn't much treatment or prevention against future strokes that they are able to do, because of her numerous other health problems. Please pray that she is not having pain and that she has a sense of the peace that passes understanding.

This has been a bad week for my mom. Cancer diagnosis on Wednesday and then her mom has a stroke on Thursday. Your prayers are appreciated.

Thursday, November 16, 2006

Prayer request

Yesterday my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. The doctors have caught it very early on. Please pray for my mom's courage and wisdom as she makes some important treatment decisions. Also please pray for my dad's courage as he deals with this scary time.

Pray that my mom will soon have a powerful testimony of how God is the Great Healer. Pray that others may see her faith and courage while she deals with this life changing event-not that she may be admired, but so that God will be glorified.

Pray that God will use this to increase his splendor.

Wednesday, November 08, 2006

Dead Ends

Here's the link to my sermon on Sunday.

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I met a young woman named LaKisha Harris last week. LaKisha has one child of her own and she is also raising her sister's four children since her sister passed away a year ago. Here's a 27 year old, single woman, with no family, no husband, no education, trying to hold her family of 6 together. That's a tall order.

She is working about 20 hours a week at Taco Bell. Her monthly income from that job is about $350 a month. Dead End.

She gets about $60 a month from the state of MS for each of her four neices and nephews that she is raising. Another $240 a month. Dead End.

She receives about $300 a month in food stamps. I can't feed my family of 5 on that and she has 3 teenagers in the house. Dead End.

I spoke with HUD on her bahalf but the waiting list for Section 8 housing is long and is closed. They won't even add names to the waiting list until more funding is promised from Washington D.C. Dead End.

That's all her monthly income.

Has she made some poor choices in life? Probably. So have I. Although I must say everyone I spoke to about her (employer, landlord, Good Samaritan case worker, HUD representative, etc.) has said she is a good person and I haven't been able to uncover a single untruth about her.

And frankly her desire to give her and her sister's kids a good family home surely mitigates any bad choices she may have made in life.

So what do we do with this family as a society? Moreover what do we do with her as Christians?

I think the church is going to be able to help her with her rent this month, and I'm fully expecting to be able to provide some Christmas presents for the kids next month, but that doesn't really improve her long term outlook. She'll still be caught in the cycle of poverty.

I consider myself to be a fairly smart guy, but I don't know the answer to this problem. One suggestion to this problem haunts me: "Sell all you have and give it to the poor." I walk away from that theory sad because I have great wealth.

But in reality even if I had the faith to do that (which I don't) then I would be in her shoes, looking for answers on how I would supply the next meal to my kids (read: waiting patiently for God to provide).

I can't help but notice countries like Australia, Germany, Sweden, The Netherlands, etc. who pay much higher taxes and don't have extreme poverty. I can't seem to let go of my capitalistic tendencies, but maybe moving more towards socialism in matters of basic needs (i.e., food, shelter, health care) is more Christ-like than perpetuating a system where you make your own fortune, no matter how efficient it may be.

All I know is that LaKisha has no where to turn. Churches, government agencies, charitable organizations, employers, and individuals have all told her, "Sorry, you're at a dead end."

Monday, November 06, 2006

Blowing The Dust Off



Allow me to blow the dust off this blog.

Last week was a busy week. I preached on Sunday because Jerry was out of town last weekend. That always takes a lot of my time. I've only preached a couple of times and I know I'm not very polished, so I try to prepare as much as possible. I thought this time went a little better than my first time, so that's a good thing. I'll put a link to the sermon when we get it posted on the church site.

I had a lot of other stuff going on as well. We've got some great pictures from Halloween I'll get posted soon. We re-bunked the boys' beds this weekend. We had them set up side by side but we stacked them which makes for a lot of extra space in their room. They're enjoying having them bunked again.

Be sure to watch NBC's Heroes tonight. If you haven't watched it, you can go to the website and catch up on what you've missed. I only watch that and Scrubs these days. There's not much on.

Oh the NBA is back in session. Go Spurs Go.

On the home front, Isaac has Croup. Jaylie has a bad cold with a runny nose. Ethan's nose is starting to run today. And I feel like I'm getting a scratchy throat. Hopefully we'll all get it at the same time and be done with it so we don't have to keep passing it around.